The Key To Becoming a Pick Up Artist
by M4W on Jun.16, 2011, under PUA
Pick Up Artist Key
Some of the most successful pickup artists have a skill that can NOT be taught on the workshops, in fact the pick up artist probably doesn’t even know he has this skill as its unconscious, or outside the real of their consciousness and they don’t even know they have this unique PUA skill.
Being a pick up artist can be quite easy and it can be quite tough. You might have noticed in your high school or college or in your routine life as well that some boys really get easy with girls. Each day they hang around with some girls and are never seen alone while on the other hand you also might have seen those who just stare at such guys but they never get a chance to get close to a girl. Or may be they don’t know or are unable to get a girlfriend.
That skill is the “unwavering belief in themselves”
Some would say this is confidence and they would be right, it’s also a mixture of arrogance, pride and a few other things.
Most budding pickup artists are in the ‘game’ for three months or less and they give up, they give it a try and go out a few times with their buddies they do about half the approaches they could do, and they say they’re not really getting the results of other PUAs out there are getting so they give up. Then a few months later they’re back again giving it another try.
There’s nothing wrong with this don’t get me wrong, in fact this is good that they remained unwavering and giving it another shot. What I am trying to say however is that you should keep going from the get go and never let rejection stop you, or “club” girls attitude deter you.
The skill the drives success in life, in business, personal relationships and other areas is persistence, it’s having this belief in yourself that you can do it and you deserve it. Most importantly is that you DESERVE IT as this will always provide you with a drive to achieve it.
Being a pick up artist means being successful with women. And being successful women charmer means quite different things for different people. To some its just a quick reaction and interaction and the attraction and some days later begins the series of hang outs. While to others being a pick up artist is a tough job where they really find it quite difficult to get in touch with girls and are supposed to stay alone watching others in pair.
So what is persistence and some good examples?
The other thing is improve your appearance. Build up some body and if you are chubby, try to loose some of it. Get yourself dressed well and make sure that you are not forecasting your shaggy appearance. And telling keeps the PUA things going. Don’t just think that she knows how much you like her. When you keep on telling her each day that how much you love and like her, will build up a confidence in your relationship and will strengthen the bond. Your PUA confidence, your looks and way to interact are going to help you be a successful pick up artist.
Persistence:
* Continuity: the property of a continuous and connected period of time
* Doggedness: persistent determination
I like the last word PUA DETERMINATION.
Some good examples of PUA Persistence:
-Never let a rejection from a girl deter or stop you from more approaches
-Never let a bad breakup deter you from feeling for another girl again in the future
-Always be positive in-light of any circumstances (this will always guide you to a solution)
-Even if she has a boyfriend be persistent as most girls who say they have a partner don’t in fact and she’s just testing you.
To become a pick up artist you need the skill of persistence, if you get shot down or rejected then take a breather, have a coffee, don’t get inside your head and think “why, what’s wrong, what am I doing wrong” etc just have a break and keep going.






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